Unexpected

Apparently one of the provinces in Kellin's country has made a change to their procedures - requiring a longer wait for the adopted child's passport while in-country.  And lucky us, this happens to be the very province where Kellin lives.  This translates into potentially spending three weeks in China when we go to pick him up, rather than two weeks.  This may be a temporary, or permanent, or variable change; we really don't know the details yet.  We only know that a few families have gotten caught in this predicament lately.

What does this potentially mean for us?  It means more time in-country, which translates into more travel expenses (hotels and food).  It means finding someone (or several someones) to care for our three children at home for a longer period of time, and at this point, we don't know who will be taking on this responsibility for us, even for two weeks.  If any family members are interested in spending a week or two or three with our children while we travel (best guess maybe in 5-6 months - January?), let us know!  We know that this issue is further complicated by the fact that whoever is caring for our children will need to be knowledgeable about and comfortable with our oldest child's medical needs (diabetes).

These are not meant to be complaints.  Overall, we have been incredibly blessed over the last three months, by a smooth process (so far) and overwhelming support from family and friends.  We knew going into this adoption process that there are always hiccups and this is a minor one compared to the obstacles others have encountered.

I admit, the thought of being away from my children for two weeks bothers me, and the thought of being away for three weeks bothers me even more.  But I know that our children here at home will be warm, safe, and well-fed.  They will be talked with, played with, listened to, and tucked into bed.  Right now, we have no assurances that Kellin has anyone who does those things for him.  During those 2-3 weeks, we will be able to devote our time and energy to Kellin, getting to know him, and loving him lots.  I know that as hard as it will be, it will be SO WORTH IT in the end.  Oh, and one positive to note - even if the time in-country is extended, we will still get Kellin within the first day or two after arriving, so he will be with us the whole trip.  I don't think I could stand being in his country and NOT being able to see him!

As always, prayers for us, our family, and especially for Kellin's safety and health are very much appreciated!!